CONFRONTING GUILT

“And Abimelech said, ‘What is this you have done to us? One of the people might soon have lain with your wife, and you would have brought guilt on us.’”  Genesis 26:10
 
There are times when people are bound by guilt long after the feeling should have been resolved.  Some rightly live with it because they refuse to give up the sin that brought it on.  Meanwhile, others suffer the weight of false guilt because they harbor shame that does not belong to them.  Whatever the root causes of your condemnation, the battle plan remain the same.
 
Victory over guilt begins with understanding that Jesus took our shame to the cross and paid our penalty.  There is no way that we can pay for our own sin.  The Living Bible says: “God showed His great love by sending Christ to die for us while we were still sinners…and now He has declared us not guilty…Since, when we were His enemies, we were brought back to God by the death of His Son, what blessings He must have for us now that we are His friends and He is living within us! Now we rejoice in our wonderful new relationship with God – all because of what our Lord Jesus Christ has done in dying for our sins – making us friends of God” (Romans 5:8-11).   But we do need to honestly identify the source of our guilt and confess before God.  That means we agree with His perspective on what we have done.  In other words, we admit when we are wrong.  When we admit that we are wrong, we are accepting responsibility for our actions—in today’s vernacular…we are owning up to it.  Repentance goes a step further; we turn away from the wrong and choose to do right.
 
Confronting guilt in this way replaces the weight of shame in our heart with peace and joy, which are far lighter and more freeing.  And an amazing side effect is that we have wisdom to share.  Openness about our past mistakes, resulting consequences, guilt burdens, and forgiveness can reveal the Lord to those in our sphere of influence.  Through our witness, God may reach others who need their guilt chains broken. 
A young man shared this amazing testimony with me:  He was out jogging one day when he ran past a homeless man.  The Holy Spirit impressed upon his heart to stop and asked the homeless man if he would do him the honor of having lunch with him that day.  The homeless man just stared at him and at first said, “No, I am not hungry.”  However, the young man continued by saying, “That’s alright, would you have a cup of coffee with me?”  The homeless man replied, “I guess so.”  The two men went to a nearby restaurant and had lunch together.  During their meal and conversation the homeless man related his burdens, and the young man was able to relate the love of Christ to someone who had never experience being asked out to eat.  This reminded me of another young man (Jesus) who asked a sinner (Zacchaeus) if he would do Him the honor of having dinner with Him, Then Jesus entered and passed through Jericho.  Now behold, there was a man named Zacchaeus who was a chief tax collector, and he was rich.  And he sought to see who Jesus was, but could not because of the crowd, for he was of short stature.  So he ran ahead and climbed up into a sycamore tree to see Him, for He was going to pass that way.  And when Jesus came to the place, He looked up and saw him, and said to him, ‘Zacchaeus make haste and come down, for today I must stay at your house.’  So he made haste and came down, and received Him joyfully.  But when they saw it, they all complained, saying, ‘He has gone to be a guest with a man who is a sinner.’  Then Zacchaeus stood and said to the Lord, ‘Look, Lord, I give half of my goods to the poor; and if I have taken anything from anyone by false accusation, I restore fourfold.’  And Jesus said to him, ‘Today salvation has come to this house, because he also is a son of Abraham; for the Son of Man has come to seek and to save that which was lost’” (Luke 19:1-10).
 
The battle to overcome guilt is one that should not be delayed.  The feeling will not just do away.  Whether your condemnation is true or false, it needs to be dealt with quickly.  Stop running, and face the source of your guilt.  It is time to end your captivity and start walking in the joy of God’s blessing.
 
Prayer—Father I thank You for Your great love for me and sending Your Son Jesus Christ to suffer the punishment for my guilt and shame so that I do not have too.  Today, I choose to confront the source of guilt in my life.  If it is because of sin in my life, Lord I ask You to shine the light of Spirit upon any area in me that is the source of this guilt and I confess and repent of it before You today.  I ask You to remove any false burdens of guilt that Satan has laid upon me, and I ask You for the power of the Holy Spirit to help me live a life free of false burdens and guilt, in Jesus Name. Amen.